I admit it. I find French women fascinating. What’s funny is that I don’t even know any. Oh, but I’ve heard about them, and read about them, and tried desperately to try and learn to tie a scarf with panache. So when I stumbled upon, What French Women Know: About Love, Sex, and Other Matters of the Heart and Mind by Debra Ollivier, I didn’t even think twice before adding it to my cart.
I’ve read lot’s of books about French women, from what they wear to what they eat. This book was different. It delved more into why they are what they are. More than that, it helped me see why, as an American, I am what I am.
Like most other American girls, I grew up wanting to be like everyone else. Wanting to fit in, wanting to be liked. French women don’t want to be like everyone else, they want to stand out, they want to add their individual touches. And as far as being liked….they don’t care. They don’t feel the need to be nice, to go around smiling at everyone.
Another interesting area was in child rearing. They are much more inclined to try and raise independent children. The author talks of the day care that her two year old attended. The daycare was taking the two year olds off on a two day field trip! The French parents all let their children go and enjoyed a lovely two days relaxing with their husbands, while none of the American women would let their children go.
All in all, I enjoyed this book. Do I think that French women are better than me? No. Do I think I am better than French women? No. Do I think that perhaps we could learn from each other? Yes?